Women are very complicated, you never know what they want or what they don’t want. This is why it is so hard to decide if she’s the one or not. Where do you want to take things with her? Is she “wifey material” or will she make your life a living hell? Well, we have compiled 10 ways to tell if she is the one and 5 ways to tell if she’s not. Read on to find where your relationship is heading.
15. She Doesn’t Judge Your Past
If your girl knows secrets from your past and doesn’t hold them against you, then you have a keeper. Regardless of whether she has some skeletons in her closet or not, this shows that she accepts you for who you are, which is the most important quality.
14. She’s Messy
Just to be honest, a messy girl isn’t going to help you develop as a person and will only make you live like a slob yourself too. A lifetime with her means not only picking up after yourself but also her!
13. She Can Nurture You When You Need It
If you are sick, have had a long day at work or even just aren’t in the mood, you know you can count on her to make you feel better. Even though she knows she doesn’t have to do these things, but actually wants to.
12. She Knows When to Give You Space
She knows when to mother you but at the same time, leaves you alone when you want space. You need both and she totally respects this without making a big deal.
11. She’s Not Loyal
This is an obvious rule of thumb but it is important to still reinstate it. If you know she doesn’t cheat now then you can count on her staying faithful throughout your life, however, the same is true for the opposite scenario.
10. She Lets You Do You
The last thing you want is to spend the rest of your life with a girl who is constantly trying to change you. Most guys want to do their own thing and find someone who compliments them.
9. She Goes out Too Much
It might be fun now but this is not something you want to deal with for the rest of your life. Imagine having your wife getting completely wasted and having to hold her hair while she throws up every weekend. Sounds horrible!
8. She Gets Along with Your Friends
If she cannot get along with the people that you like, then that says something about your compatibility. This is a warning sign because it’s showing something about her that you fail to see.
7. She’s Great in Bed
You are going to be with this girl for the rest of your life so it is important that you enjoy her physically. This is not something that should ever be compromised because it will only hurt the relationship in the long run.
6. She Freaks Out When You Go Out
If she constantly makes you feel like you can’t have fun and let loose, then this will only result in many arguments. If she’s like this now, she will only get worse!
5. She Believes in Chances
She is understanding and knows that people make mistakes so she gives you chances. This room for error is what will help you grow and you will need this many times in your life.
4. She Protects You
You want someone who always wants the best for you and will do whatever it takes to make sure you are okay. Obviously, it can be hard but it is an important part of any relationship.
3. She’s Always After You
There is a difference between looking after you and always being on your back about everything. You will never be happy with a woman who nags you.
2. She’s Always a Good Time
You want to make sure you enjoy the company of whoever you choose to spend the rest of your life with. This is why you want someone who can be your wife, your lover and also your best friend.
1. She Looks Good No Matter All The Time
Every girl can look good when she is all glammed up, but it is the ones that look good first thing in the morning that count. If you think she looks hot when she wakes up, then you will wake up happy forever.