Nothing is as heartbreaking as waking up one morning and discovering that the woman you have invested time, money, emotions and energy in, is cheating on you.
Society has painted this stereotypical image of men not committing to any single woman but the exact opposite is true. Most men are looking for a companion in life and finding that special person validates any amount of sacrifice and commitment required to build a healthy relationship. Unfortunately, that’s just a single component of the dating equation.
Truth be told, it’s harder to maintain a relationship than to start one. With that being said, we’ve drawn up a list of 10 warning signs that may shed some light on whether or not your partner is as committed to your relationship as you are. Slide 7 is a major warning sign, don’t miss it!
10. She Suddenly Has An Unfounded Interest In Your Routine
A fine line exists between a woman being clingy and suspiciously inquisitive. If her motive for inquiring about your schedule isn’t to spend more time together, it could be fair to suspect that something fishy is going on.
This wouldn’t be the first time a man has unexpectedly returned home to find his woman in bed with another man.
9. She’s Become Withdrawn And Distant
The longevity of any and every relationship depends heavily on the quality and quantity of communication between two people. One of the most worrying signs to look out for is when your partner displays a weird sense of withdrawal and a lack of communication. Always keep in mind that secrets breed lies.
8. Her Phone Becomes Her Most Prized Possession
Although online social networking has brought about an abundance of opportunity and entertainment, it hasn’t come without its fair share of drawbacks. Nobody is advocating the idea of men snooping around phones, but when your partner becomes overly possessive and secretive of her phone, it could be because she’s indulging herself in some meat candy (if you know what we mean). As worrying as this sign is, the next one is far worse.
7. Her Interest In Romance And Sex Drastically Decreases
Without physical intimacy, your relationship is nothing more than a friendship. We’re not just talking about sex, physical contact in the form of kissing, cuddling and flirting are all essential attributes of a healthy and romantic relationship. If she presents a serious lack of interest in romance and sex with you, her partner, she’s possibly getting it from someone else.
6. She’s Purchasing New Lingerie But Not For You
While we’re still discussing physical intimacy, let’s cover a huge warning sign that most men tend to ignore. If she’s purchasing sexy lingerie and not once has she mentioned saving it for a special occasion with you or wearing it for herself, let’s just say that the chance of it being for another man isn’t zero.
5. She’s Constantly On Your Case About Things
Another essential characteristic of a fulfilling relationship is respect. The way you talk, treat and act towards each other speaks volumes about how much respect you have for one another.
When a woman takes a 360-degree turn by feverishly pointing out your flaws and is constantly searching for any reason to nag you about unnecessary things, this could be her way of sabotaging the relationship in exchange for another.
4. An Unexpected New Friend Appears In Her Life
Some people believe that men and women are incapable of being friends, especially when attraction levels are above average. To some extent, this statement can be validated by the numerous accounts of people who have cheated on their partners with a new “friend.”
Simply ask yourself the following question: does she engage in any flirtatious behavior with him? If so, be very wary. If you decide to confront her, you may want to check out the next slide before you do.
3. She’s Evasive When You Confront Her
Perhaps you’ve mustered up the courage to be straightforward and confronted her about your suspicion of infidelity. If her response is convoluted, redirecting or vague, she could be hiding something from you.
Not making a choice is as good as making one. The ideal response is a strong refusal. Anything less is a sign of danger.
2. She Comes Home Smelling Different
Being together for a significant amount of time comes with the benefit of knowing exactly what fragrance cologne your partner loves. If you ever smell a different or distinct fragrance on her and when questioned, she’s evasive or flustered, it could be a sign that you’re smelling another man’s scent on your girl.
1. She Has Systematically Cut You Out Of Her Life
Believe it or not, some people can be such cowards that they would opt to unexpectedly isolate you from their lives rather than be honest about their wrongdoing and infidelity. If you find yourself on the outside looking in, you may want to confront her and insist on an explanation. Be prepared though, you may not like what you hear.
Share this with as many men as you possibly can. Let’s save our brothers from prolonged pain and heartbreak.