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15 Important Things You Must Know Before Making Love To Her

Whether you are a virgin and it is your first time having sex, or you are an experienced “stud,” there are several things you need to keep in mind before making love with a girl – this is especially true if it is your first time with her. Not getting these 15 things right, could ruin your relationship before it has even started. You must know how to establish trust, and make sure she is consenting to the sexual relation (meaning she isn’t drunk or otherwise incapacitated).

Not Getting It Right, Could Ruin Your Relationship

The rules listed in this article are for your own benefit – people are excited when they have met someone new, and why risk losing a potential long-term partner? That’s why following the roles listed here are going to tremendously help you in your future relationships.

She Must Trust You

Before sleeping with a girl, you must be a 100% confident that she trusts you. She must not display any kind of uneasiness or confusion before proceeding to intercourse. If she is hesitant, give her space, there is no need to rush things though.

Her Body Language Is Open

A girl that likes you, and is ready for future progression in your relationship, is going to have an “open” body language towards you. Open body language is she is not keeping her legs or arms crossed, her shoulders aren’t raised, she keeps eye contact, and other similar displays of openness.

Her Legs Aren’t Crossed

One of the fundamentals of open body language is not to keep your legs crossed. If a girl has crossed her legs while being with you (especially in a bedroom scenario) that may indicate that she is not ready or willing to have further advancements from you.

She Keep Eye Contact

A secondary display of affection, trust, and openness is keeping strong eye contact. Normally, eye contact alone is not enough to know whether a girl is ready to have sex with you, but it does indicate that she finds your company pleasant.

Going to 2nd Base

Having sex, especially for the first time, should always be preceded by going to second base. Second base is having heavy petting, touching each other “down there,” and sometimes being shirtless. Being in second base is the natural step towards making love.

Your Relationship Will Change

No matter how close you follow the advice listed here and on other pages, remember that having sex is going to have a tremendous effect on your relationship. Things that weren’t serious before, are going to become serious, and your attitude may become different.

Don’t Be Awkward

An important aspect to remember is not to become anxious or overly awkward after having sex. Sure, you will be feeling a lot of different emotions, but so will she. It is important to be stable and available to your partner after making love.

She Will Leave Things in Your Apartment

Once you start seeing a girl regularly, it is normal that sometimes she will forget things in your place. Most girls do not do this intentionally, although some girls can leave certain objects in your room, as a way to mark their “territory” from other girls.

She May Become Clingy

Not all girls are clingy, but some (especially if she is inexperienced) may become what some guys call “clingy.” This is completely understandable and it should not put you off from being in contact with her. She is clingy because she needs you, so be there for her.
Practice Basic Hygiene

Hygiene is a crucial part of sex, both before and after having it. Remember to be as clean as possible for your girl. You’ll be spending a lot of intimate time together, and all sorts of nasty stuff that wasn’t noticeable before will get noticed. A lot.

Groom Yourself

Girls love a guy that takes care of himself. Being clean is not enough – you should always strive to keep your hair and beard (if applicable) in top shape. Your hair should get cut at least once every 60 days or so. Some guys try to go to the barber every 30 days.

Be Safe

Even though you might trust her, she is still a new partner to you, and you should play it safe. Always wear a condom, as you don’t know the sexual history of your new partner. Once a few weeks or months have passed, then you can think about going raw.

Know Her Relationship Status

Before sleeping with a new girl, you should probably know and talk to her about her relationship status. This is entirely up to you and her, but you should know if you are ready to sleep with someone that may already be in a relationship with another person.

Think About the Future of Your Relationship

This one is not an especially crucial step but is still something to keep in mind. You should have an idea in your head, or what do you want to have out of the relationship with this girl. Even if it is a one night stand, that’s totally okay, but you should think it through.

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